inside and outside view of ourselves

10 Psychological Studies That Will Change What You Think You Know About Yourself
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/18/20-psychological-studies-_n_4098779.html

“The first group adopted the standard tactic of putting themselves in the other person’s shoes, while the second group was asked to imagine they would be rated by the other person in several months’ time.”
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/06/01/how-to-see-yourself-through-others-eyes/